Black Women Need to be Re-Educated? I Think NOT!

Please note: this blog is in no way a method in giving this particular male I shall speak on a spot in the limelight, so for that purpose I will not be mentioning the male's book or his name anywhere. (Cause he is certainly not a man at all)

He will affectionately be referred to as THE PIG from now on. :)

Anyway one of my associates sent me a link to a blog where THE PIG was the blog's highlight story and how he wrote a book proclaiming himself as the great re-educator of Black women everywhere, commenting that Black women have got it all wrong about men, and he has it all right. THE PIG says there is a reason that successful Black women are always asking themselves "why don't I have a man?" and the reason is NOT that Black men are intimidated by their success. The "real" reasons, along with other tomfoolery are located in his book: The Black woman's unashamed no holds barred guide in how she can find herself a successful Black man.

Maybe I have the order of things incorrect, (I don't) but my Bible says that a man is supposed to find his wife... not the other way around. STRIKE ONE.

For some stupid reason I found myself curious about this insanity and decide to listen to excerpts of his book online....

THE VERDICT????

HE IS A PIG therefore he now bears the name.



And not nearly as cute as this one...

If you want to be with a pig, you listen to him. When did men get this crazy like this? Oh I forgot this type of male isn't saved. I thank you Lord for 2 Corinthians 6:14 do not be yoked together with unbelievers... this is your inheritance, lots of undue pain and grief from a man who doesn't even love Christ, or himself, so how can he love you the way you are supposed to be loved woman?

Anyway here is what I got from that filth I poisoned my spirit with today...

"Women make it (meaning obtaining relationships with 'men' like him) harder than it needs to be."

Whatever!!!

This is REASON NUMERO UNO why women need not be going after men!!! It was meant to be the other way around... the man should be pursuing YOU.

Continuing my paraphrase...all THE PIG needs you as a woman to do for him is be attractive, know how to cook and clean, and stop complaining and you can have him.

Hmmm you are the prize I get for all that work?

No thanks.

He also stressing appearance in saying that he prefers women that are in shape and if you have any sort of flaw you need to "get that in check" before you even start to pursue a man. STRIKE TWO.

I am not discounting the importance of keeping up your appearance as a woman, but looking at him he is about a biscuit away from being overweight and he has the nerve to talk about what he wants in a woman? The sheer audacity... HE is the one here who lacks wisdom... does he not know that all of these external things fade with age and time?

See my theory is that he is really looking for a prostitute, who just does what he asks without anything HE NEEDS TO DO IN RETURN for her.

What do you expect from s SELFISH PIG?

Paraphrase... THE PIG SPEAKS.

Men beep their horns from their cars at women because they want to acknowledge that you are cute, but he's got things to do? Take it as a compliment that a man can't even get out of their cars any more because they are "too busy."

I read he has a girlfriend... poor thing. Run like hell!

THE PIG also has an opinion about men paying for anything on a date, (comparing women who let men pay for them on dates to prostitutes) calling virgins "the biggest prostitutes of all." saying that he could probably get a prostitute to perform for less than a cost of a date. I guess that is what women are to him.

Wow this is what it has come to in relationships between men and women? Men are now demanding that women go after them? Men actually having the nerve to want to be pursued by women? That is that punkish mess....

Thank God I'm single!

I know in my heart of hearts that PIGS never go after the virtue in a woman. They aren't looking for the quiet spirit, or the woman who not only attractive on the outside, but the inward too. A woman who is worth more than rubies and more precious than gold. You can't have this woman simply because you shell out money for a date. I'm quite sure that this woman doesn't want THE PIG or his mentality.

That kind of woman is THE PIG'S worst nightmare. That woman is the Proverbs 31 kind of woman.
If you watch enough BET you would think that a woman was a collection of body parts you just threw money at anyway. No wonder men like THE PIG are encouraged to think that any lil' ole piece of man is good enough for a woman.

I think when you truly look at men like this you figure out that not only do they have a deep hatred for women, but a deeper hatred for themselves and well if you want to go deeper GOD himself.

I'm going to flip select verses Ephesians 5:22-32 for you.

Husbands, hate your wives, just as Christ hated the church and gave himself up for her???

OF COURSE THAT MAKES NO SENSE! Christ loves the Church, but when you have a man who doesn't love Christ and has not accepted him as savior and Lord, and has shown fruits of being saved. Then they hate God and will hate you... as a girlfriend and especially as a wife.

In this same way, husbands ought to hate their wives as their own bodies.

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A MAN DOES NOT ACCEPT CHRIST... THE EFFECTS TRICKLE DOWN...

.... He who hates his wife hates himself.

Do you see how twisted it is in how the world does things... this is NOT of God.

Christian Ladies please don't unevenly yoke yourself with this kind of man.

What unsaved men do to the saved woman he is dating:

1. They will turn you away from the faith.

2. They will not love you as Christ loved the Church... the way you SHOULD BE LOVED.

3. They will encourage you to sin.

Well I've got an education for him... Lord thank you for sparing me from men like this who don't love themselves...

Too much pointing the finger outward instead of himself who in his audio insert constantly called women out of their name and compared them to streetwalkers. This type of boy hasn't matured into manhood and is still dependent on women to take care of him. He wants a mommy, not a real woman. It is true for so many of our society's men. It is truly a sad day in the male species.

Proverbs 18:22 - He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.

Every example in the word, which points to a woman going after a man or pursuing him, you will find that woman is considered immoral. Check the examples from Potiphar's wife with Joseph to immoral woman in Proverbs to the harlot in Revelation.

In other words, not exactly the best idea ladies. Black women, your education is from the word of God you studying to be better women. Everything else, is for THE PIGS.

All is Tolerated - EXCEPT RADICAL CHRISTIANITY That Is...

This is a VENT that I posted on a listserv, and I wanted to share it with you all:

I have wanted to comment on this for a minute now, but since this campaign and many commentators on TV have driven me to do so. The Evangelical Christian is the only group left in America that is severely criticized and discriminated against because of their religious beliefs. I heard a commentator say (actually the new gal Rachel Maddow on MSNBC) say out of her mouth that if you believe that God has a hand in world affairs that it was an issue with anyone running for president because they are to "radical" or "extreme."

The absolute nerve of these God hating people...

So I guess folks in this country say "In God We Trust" WE don't really mean it. We don't REALLY want God involve in our affairs... UNTIL WE SCREW UP THAT IS or there is some tragedy.

The first words you say are OH MY GOD.... interesting isn't it? We only "want" God when it is convenient for us, and when he fits into our little schedules. Funny if God did that to us how would we fare? Not very well IMHO.

This is the GOD of the universe.... are you out of your minds? I really think so.

It has become cosmopolitan to bash Christians who have a fundamental belief that the Bible is the literal word of God, and that every word in that Bible is true. It's OK to be a Muslim, a Buddhist, a Catholic, a lukewarm Christian (cause they are not all radical and stuff) and anything else but an "evangelical."

A soror sent a quote about Sarah Palin being an evangelical like it was a BAD THING. While I'm not voting for McCain, a lot of people I know ARE based off of the way the liberal media treats them and those who continue to sneak in these attacks against Fundamentalist Christians, NOT TO MENTION that Republicans (even though I know they are frauds half of the time) continue to speak out on issues that us evangelicals care about while the dems seem real lukewarm about them.

Yeah I do NOT believe in the THEORY of evolution... I believe the bible is the LITERAL word of God.... I believe God has a hand in human events when he is asked to intervene... I am pro-life regardless of the circumstance in which the baby is conceived.... I believe a man named Jesus walked this Earth sinless 2000 + years ago died on a cross for my sins so that I may live.... CURRENTLY anti-death penalty though I believe the Bible when it says we pray for our leaders (no matter how dumb they are) the sword is given to them to protect.... and I believe that one day if my life depended on it, I will NEVER DENY HIM.... JESUS IS LORD.

Yep I'm an extreme over the top, JESUS FREAK.

I also have two degrees working on a third, Black woman.

So what? I still have a vote in this country, and I'm seriously tired of people belittling what I hold dear. That is all.

Choose this Day Who You Will Serve...

Why are you surprised about our country's recent financial woes?

Our greed and our reliance on capitalism have caused us to make unwise investments, and in the process, we are losing our jobs, our pensions, and everything we have worked for. All of this is because of the pursuit of money and profits. We cannot blame this on one administration or group of persons. We have ourselves to blame.

Haven't you heard that WISE MAN over 2,000 years ago and what he said concerning these times: "You cannot serve God and money." I'm sure you have, but why do we choose the yoke slavery over God's yoke that is easy and light?

I guess I am in a reflective mood this morning. We are so quick to point the blame to others when things fail... have we really looked at ourselves as a country for the financial mess we are in? As a country we are borrowing from other nations. We are fighting a war based on lies and deceit for the pursuit of money, and we are master consumers of everything in this country, all the while we have the poor in the streets while we drive our expensive cars, and wear our $1,000 shoes and expensive clothing and jewelry... but we wonder why we are all slaves to our debt.

America is only doing what our country is doing. We are selling ourselves out to the slavery of debt. Did you know that the average lender gives you debt up to 250 times the amount that you are able to repay? That means that this system is built to keep you in slavery to debt. Wake up AMERICA! Why does this surprise you?

What does the word say?

Habakkuk 2:7
Will not your debtors suddenly arise? Will they not wake aup and make you tremble? Then you will become their victim.

A debtor has power over you to at least be a great annoyance if you owe then and at worst the ones ruining your good name when you cannot afford (or choose not to) pay.

People are losing their homes because of greed all around. You bought a house you know you can't afford now you are looking at your government to bail you out. The lender was thinking about his commissions so he lied and sold you a house he or she knew you couldn't afford, not doing the right thing by rejecting your application and telling you to make more money or save more. Wae have ourselves to blame.

These banks are going under because of their greed. Making terrible investments gambling instead of being smart. However our economy is so dependent on these private entities that as a government we must bail them out when they mess up. Thousands of people lose their money in one fail swoop... the banks aren't returning phone calls.

That credit card company decides that just because you missed a payment last month that they have the right to raise your interest rate, lower your credit card limit, or close your account all together, all of which negatively affects your credit score. Low FICA scores mean companies can charge you more interest, which is simply more money for them. Wow. A system that is waiting for you to get in debt and miss a payment so they can pile on more debt while you're vulnerable.

Sounds predatory to me. They belong to their father the devil, seeking whom he may devour.

It is all about whom we choose to serve.

This country's God is money and greed, and unfortunately, this is what you reap when you sow into monetary gain.